“Christ bids us out of the shadows of suspicion, to live in the sunshine as children of the day.” The spirit of a Christian checks for logs in his own eye (Matthew 7:3–5) - mindful that he is a “man sinning more than sinned against” - charitably limits his judgments to what he can clearly perceive, and then wants to approach the person and discusses it with him directly as a brother (Matthew 18:15). The spirit of the flesh is wronged by a church member and gossips or comments passive-aggressively online. The spirit of a Christian assumes the reasonable best of his neighbor, interpreting him how he wants to be interpreted. The spirit of the age assumes the worst of his neighbor’s confusing comment. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. It does not insist on its own way it is not irritable or resentful it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love is patient and kind love does not envy or boast it is not arrogant or rude. Yet, set that spirit against the spirit of love, the spirit of Christ, the spirit of the Christian: And when this is our focus, we are quick to speak and slow to listen, quick to write off and slow to bear with, quick to suspect and slow to forgive. Their sin against me, not my sin against a holy God, troubles me most. Love in an Age of SuspicionĪs fallen men and women, sin’s bent naturally tempts us to say in the spirit of King Lear, “I am a man more sinned against than sinning.” Without being taught, we easily see most of our problems “out there,” with other people.
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Yet if our sins have been (unimaginably) forgiven by God - and in Christ, they have been - then we have been set free to lay down our subtle suspicions, our default distrust, and to assume the best of others. Thinking the worst of our loved ones or our neighbors is unjust and often unreliable, and it passes too easily unnoticed. Every creak of the floor becomes a burglar. They contain a self-fulfilling prophecy: the more we suspect, the more reasons we find to suspect the more we distrust, the more reasons we find to distrust. Our suspicions can make us strike at those dearest to us. My suspicion was becoming hers.Ĭynicism and suspicion, I know firsthand, crawl into our minds and make us traitors to ourselves, dangers to our families, and toxins to our churches.
My general cynicism toward people - like weeds in a lawn - did not stay just with me. I soon unearthed the source I hadn’t expected: me. What had caused the change, I inquired one day. My beautiful lily drooped before me.Īs any husband would, I wanted to help. She grew quieter, less energetic, less herself. Once vivacious, childlike, radiant, she began to joke less impulsively and laugh less freely. No matter where Lina and Addie's travels take them, one thing is true: romance and adventure are on the horizon.I didn’t see the sin until I saw the effect it began to have on my wife. And as the trio journeys through magical forests and past countless castles, Addie hopes her guidebook will heal not only her broken heart, but also her shattered relationship with her brother. Soon, Addie finds herself on a whirlwind tour of the Emerald Isle with Ian and his Irish-accented friend, Rowan. But when Addie discovers an unusual guidebook, Ireland for the Heartbroken, their travel plans change. But her brother, Ian, isn't about to let her forget. In the green hills of Ireland, Lina's best friend Addie is just trying to make it through her aunt's over-the-top destination wedding, hoping that she can stop thinking about the one thing she did that left her miserable and heartbroken-and threatens her future. It's a world that inspires her, along with the ever so charming Ren, to follow in her mother's footsteps and uncover a secret that has been kept for far too long-a secret that will change everything Lina thought to be true. Suddenly, Lina is uncovering a world of magic and romance. All Lina wants to do is go back home.until she's given a journal that her mom had kept when she lived in Italy. But Lina isn't in the mood for Italy's famous sunshine or fairy-tale landscape. Travel to beautiful Tuscany with Lina who, still grieving her mother's death, is forced to spend time with a father she never knew. From Italy to Ireland, love can be found anywhere. About the Book "Includes Love & gelato, Love & luck"-Title page.īook Synopsis Set in the far-off and beautiful countrysides of Italy and Ireland, Jenna Evans Welch's New York Times bestselling romances about life, love, and the true meaning behind the word family are now together in one charming package.
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